Beggars can't be choosers
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Someone dependent on what is offered has limited grounds to demand a preferred alternative. Can be practical but also patronising, especially when used by the giver. The older should form makes the moral judgement explicit. Regional use: English proverbial origin; now international English.
Origin
John Heywood's 1562 edition of his proverb collection says 'Beggers should be no choosers'. That wording expresses an obligation not to be over-selective, whereas the modern can't can sound as if choice is literally impossible. The shift from should be no to can't be preserved the proverb while slightly changing its force.
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Variants
- Beggars cannot be choosers
- Beggars should be no choosers
- Beggars must not be choosers
Usage Examples
- The replacement room was smaller, but beggars can't be choosers during festival week.
- We needed a lift in the storm, and beggars could not be choosers.
- Beggars can't be choosers, though accepting help does not erase a person's dignity.