Meaning & origin

Say uncle

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Meaning

Admit defeat, surrender, or ask for an ordeal to stop. Current informal expression, often associated with children's contests Regional use: United States and Canada.

Origin

A North American slang phrase that developed from a widely reprinted 1891 joke about a parrot forced to say uncle, then forcing barnyard birds to do the same. A 1903 American cartoon already transfers the wording to making a person submit, and the clear surrender sense is printed in a 1912 basketball report. The proposed derivation from Irish anacol, meaning protection, is unsupported by intermediate forms or Irish usage.

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  1. Wordorigins: uncle / say uncle

Variants

  • cry uncle
  • holler uncle
  • make someone say uncle

Usage Examples

  • Theo held the lid down until his laughing brother finally said uncle.
  • The negotiators refused to cry uncle even after midnight.

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